Whether male or female, many people around the world want to have random hookups. The one problem: most people don't know how to go about it. Today we are going to give you some of the best tips for having random hookups. Our tips will work whether you are a guy or a gal, no need to worry.
Be Confident, Like You Do It Every Day
Confidence is important to having random hookups. Most people are looking for a partner that can make them feel good. There is no better indicator than confidence. Both men and women should aim to come off as confident without being cocky. Bragging about your prowess is more often than not, not the way to go about having random hookups.
Determine What You Want Beforehand
Before you start looking for a hookup, you want to determine what you are looking for. Many people engaging in hookups are those who want a one night stand and nothing else. That doesn't mean that everyone who wants to hook up is looking only for a one night stand. Some want to start with a hookup and see where it goes from there.
Either way, it is important to know beforehand which you are looking for. If you are asked what you are looking for, make sure that you are honest. Misleading someone about a hookup can be mean and dangerous.
Turn To A Dating App
There are a variety of apps out there that are specifically tailored to having random hookups. Take a look at your options and consider which one is best. Sometimes these dating apps have themes for their platforms such as BDSM or same sex hookups. You can also find apps for hookups if you are married. These are discreet and confidential.
Be Aware Of Others
There other people involved in our lives and animals too. Take into mind roommates and pets when having a hookup. You don't want to disturb their lives or affect them in any way. For example, you don't want to get your pets too used to having someone around.
Leave Out The Sex At First
We shouldn't have to say this but both sides have experienced issues with sex being the first thing used when they are approached. For most, this is a turn off. You have to have some ground to connect on. A hookup starts with making a connection and talking for a little while.
Even when you are using a dating app or website, you want to start off by talking first. This helps to break the ice and to form a connection.
Be Safe, Always
You will see this one a lot in our articles, but it is important to mention. You need to be safe during all of your hookups. Meet initially in a public place and always spend at least a few minutes getting to know someone. You don't need to share intimate details, just enough for you to get a feeling for the person.
Remember to use protection. Even if you are engaging in same sex fun or you are sterile, there are other things that can be caught by having sex. STIs/STDs are not fun and not something to be played around with.
Most importantly you always have the ability to leave. If something doesn't feel right, be safe, not sorry.
Take these tips to mind and you will get the best random hookups. You will enjoy them too. Make sure to keep an eye out for some of our other articles that will help you get more from the experience. Enjoy!