Most people are interested in having a casual relationship. The reason is that it provides them a chance to enjoy their sex life without getting into any kind of commitments or responsibilities. It has been found that several individuals started with a casual relationship but they ended up being hurt because their feeling grew for the other person. We know that you do not want this to happen to you. That is why here we have a few tips that will help you maintain your casual relationship without getting hurt.
Set Strict Rules
When you have found someone, who is agreed to have a casual relationship with you, it is better that you set some rules. The sooner your will set the rules the better it would be for both of you. The rules should be about.
- 1. How many times you are going to meet.
- 2. When you will leave each other after having sex.
- 3. Protection both of you would be using to avoid any accidents.
- 4. The authority you will have on each other's life.
Once you will set some strict rules, things will become easier and interesting for you.
Do not Share Feeling or Information
One of the most common mistakes that most people make is they start sharing personal information and feelings with the person they are in a casual relationship with. You can share some minor information but as soon as you will make the mistake of sharing some hidden information or details about something you have bee hurt about, you will notice that your feelings for the other person will start to change and you will end up being hurt. It is better that you keep your feelings to yourself.
Do not Spend A Lot of Time Together
There are many people in a casual relationship who love to spend a lot of time together. Apart from having great sex, they will start going on dates and spending time talking to each other. If you are not planning on getting hurt, such types of activities are forbidden. You should know that the longer you will spend time with him/her the more attached you will grow. You might start to develop feelings while the other person is only taking it casually. So, it is better that you do not make such mistakes that will become the reason of your being hurt in the end.
Keep It Limited to Sex Only
Do not try to take to the next level at any point. It is important that you keep everything to sec only. You should have sex, enjoy the pleasure and leave. It is better that you fix the time and date when you will be together. It will give you some peace of mind that you are not spending some extra time with your partner. And it might take some time for both of you to adjust in the beginning but when none of you will get hurt in the end, you will appreciate the fact that you kept your distance.
Make sure that you manage everything casually. Assure that you do not invite him/her to your house if you know it would be hard for you to control your feelings. You will need a complete control over yourself if you want to avoid getting hurt. If you still notice that you have a feeling for other person, it is important that you test them. Know if they have the same feeling. If they do not feel anything about you, it is better that you leave before you get hurt.